The NASFAT National Women Affairs Secretary, Mrs. Suweebah Bola Kupolati, has encouraged women to embrace polygamy, citing its relevance as a societal need and its recognition within the Holy Quran.
Speaking at the 1st Biennial Zonal Women’s Conference held at Fountain University, Osogbo, Osun State, Mrs. Kupolati emphasized that Muslim women should acquire deep comprehension of polygamous marriage in alignment with Quranic teachings and shari’ah principles.
Addressing the reservations some women have towards polygamy, the NASFAT scribe said, “By recognizing polygamous marriage as a social necessity, beneficial for both genders, women’s apprehensions about it could diminish.”
“Polygamy is a subject that some of our women are hesitant about due to their desire for exclusive spousal relationships. However, this is a concept rooted in the Quran. As the Women’s Management Committee and NASFAT, our role is to facilitate women’s understanding of this concept for easier acceptance.”
Observing the high number of single women, including divorcees, widows, and those unable to find spouses, she underscored the importance of educating women about polygamy.
Alhaja Kupolati also highlighted that embracing polygamy could help address numerous societal issues.
Encouraging women to study the topic further and place trust in Allah, she asserted, “Polygamy offers solutions to many challenges we face today. With more females than males, it’s imperative to educate women about this subject so they can approach it positively.”
“Polygamy is Quranic and we must embrace it with goodwill. The only challenge lies in women’s lack of comprehension and acceptance. It’s a divine solution to various problems.”
The conference aimed to address this issue and provide leadership training to women in leadership positions, ensuring effective management of responsibilities both at home and in society.
Women in polygamous households were advised to be patient, understanding, and accommodating, while also urging men to receive education on effectively management of such households.
In closing, Mrs. Kupolati reiterated that Islam permits a maximum of four wives for a man, provided he can care for them and their offspring.
Insights from attendees like Alhaja Onifade Sherifat echoed the need for education to dispel misconceptions about polygamy.
Participants acknowledged the challenge of accepting another wife but recognized the Quranic mandate, pledging to fulfill it with patience and faith, expecting divine rewards for their understanding.